How to talk to make girls happy
12 min readBecause the braised male pot friend is very curious, I want to know how to make the girl happy, but Hazi Kashi is embarrassed to let me talk about the reason in person… I will tell him so implicitly…
There may be something wrong, or there may be supplementary _(:з」∠)_ handed over to the masses! ! !
First of all, I think that girls are a kind of creatures who like to listen to sweet words, so basically they will like someone at the beginning because he can talk [My dear boyfriend, you are an accident…
So basically guys who are nice and talkative can attack a large number of girls.
The last thing the girl likes to hear is the universal “drink some hot water”, although I have to admit that drinking hot water is indeed more useful when you have a stomachache or a cold and fever…but…all The same answer sounds very boring.
1. When the girl tells you where she is uncomfortable, what she wants to express is not that she is really uncomfortable! ! ! She wants you to care about comfort! !
Ask what is uncomfortable! ! Is there any medicine? ! ! The local ones just say, why don’t I go and take a look at you! If you are not here, just say, do you have medicine there! It’s really impossible to let a friend buy it for you! Or some girls like to be more domineering, just say, idiot! You see that you are not paying attention to your body. Next time you should BLABLA and then silently send her a copy of what you should pay attention to about this disease! This is so sweet! This is what the girl wants! ! ! !
It’s not that you say “How come you are sick too!” or “Oh, you are sick!” or “Why don’t you pay attention at all?” Go drink some hot water.”
Stomach disease drink hot water! Auntie is here to drink hot water! Cold and fever drink hot water! Hot water is not a panacea, brother! ! ! Drinking too much will make it more uncomfortable, brother! ! ! Drinking too much water for stomach problems not only has no relief at all, but also feels vomiting! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Could it be that the pain of the egg is also good for drinking some hot water! ! ! ! ! !
2. If something happens to the girl, make the girl very scared. If you’re around, help her eliminate anything you’re afraid of. If she is afraid of cockroaches, go and fight cockroaches. If she is afraid of spiders, go and fight spiders. If she is afraid of horror movies, she will put her arms in her arms. Category. Then you can talk about things afterwards and say with a little spoiling tone, don’t be afraid of me in the future. Or just don’t say anything and just finish the action and smile at the girl.
If you are not around, then do your best to let her not worry so much, give her a smooth hair, let her not be afraid. Of course, if you say “Oh, don’t be afraid to follow the hair down”, it is basically the same effect as not saying it. Every girl knows not to be afraid, but this kind of thing can not be afraid without being afraid! ! ! ! If I’m not afraid, I’ll talk to you specifically! ! ! ! ! At this time, if the dangerous thing is still there, help her with a trick, and then comfort her by saying something nice, how nice and how to come. If the dangerous object is no longer there, just say “it’s okay, I’m here” and other reassuring words, and then you can joke to divert the girl’s attention, so that the girl doesn’t always think about things that make her unhappy and scare her. If the girl really cares, then patiently comfort her until she is really not so scared.
I can use my boyfriend to give a negative example=L=I met a neurosis on the road again, and I was so scared to death. It happened that my boyfriend sent a text message, so I asked for comfort. So… he stopped after asking me what was wrong! See! NS! The news came back almost half an hour later! Then he told Lu Zhu that he went to take a bath! Lu Zhu is very angry=L=His old man said something to Lu Zhu…it means, anyway, you are home well, so I need to say more.
Boy friends pay attention, those who can say such things are destined to live a lonely rhythm. In the future, if there is no improvement, there is no third way to be either NTR or dumped.
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3. In fact, every girl wants to find a mature and sensible boy, but… basically mature and sensible boys have grown up and have children. At least I think so.
Therefore, if you cannot become a mature and sensible boy at your age, then please be sure to pretend to be mature, sensible, gentle and considerate. Don’t be jealous, but don’t be jealous at all. Don’t be too clingy, but don’t stop being clingy. If something happens, the two people may have a dispute or a dispute has already occurred. Don’t quarrel with the girl. You must carefully and peacefully after the girl vents all your unhappiness, then go to reason with the girl, or second. God will go to reason again.
but! ! ! If the girl is upset about spitting out things! ! Don’t even say that the girl is not! ! ! ! Don’t show impatience! ! ! ! This is a further step in igniting a greater war! ! It is very likely that the girl will turn out the old accounts between you many years ago because of this, and say it again! ! ! ! _(:з」∠)_In short, for your hello and me, hello everyone, please bear with me, young man.
4. Regarding the question of the mature and sensible girl mentioned by everyone, I have a little bit of my own opinion_(:з」∠)_
In fact, it’s the same for both men and women. They may be a little bit open-mouthed about people close to them, and speak a little more seriously or a little too much.
But in general, compared with men and women of the same age group, girls will always be two to three years older than boys, and maybe because of family reasons, girls will have a more mature mood.
_(:з」∠)_ There may be many things that the girl understands in her heart but does not want to say it, she will adopt some she thinks, pay attention, it is the way she thinks is a little softer to reflect the dissatisfaction in her heart, this way may be In the eyes of boys, it will become unreasonable. Therefore, if you encounter such a thing, don’t go about it in a hurry, but the man first cares about what happened.
There will be pretentious people, it depends on how your girl treats things.
If it’s a green tea bitch inside, then I can only congratulate you on Dapu Ben. Congratulations, you don’t say much, so you can be a father to yourself. 【enough!
If you treat things more naively, then you can only say that maybe the girl has such a personality, then those who make trouble without reason may really be BLABLA who make trouble without reason.
If you treat things more clearly and rationally, and are more mature at your age, then such a girl should be regarded as a mature and sensible girl.
5. Please be sure to chat with your sister for at least one hour a day, especially when you are in love.
If you don’t want your girl to think about it, if you don’t want to be NTR, then chat with her more. Otherwise, the girl will feel so bored that she thinks of a lot of messy things. _(:з」∠)_
If you encounter something, busy with work or something, if the girl sends a text message, please reply in seconds, say a few words with her, and then say that you are going to be busy.
If you are playing a game, take a second, and then don’t tell her that you are playing a game, ╮(╯▽╰)╭Because girls don’t like to hear boys say that they are ignored because the other party is playing games. Of course, if you and your dear girlfriend are playing the online version of Jianxia Qingyuan III, then congratulations to you wwww, you can happily play games with female spray.
Also, don’t leave her out for a long time. If you really have something, then tell her in advance that you have something to be busy. It’s really annoying not to contact her inexplicably, especially when you are away. Love things. _(:з」∠)_If you don’t contact the other party for a long time, it basically means that you have basically no interest in you, and there is no need to contact. It is an early prelude_(:з」∠)_
6. If the girl is very happy and happily telling you something, whether you think it is very interesting or boring to you, you must listen carefully and patiently to her to finish, and then if you see the girl smiling happily , Be sure to laugh with the girl.
It’s best to be able to draw inferences from one another. If you can’t, don’t let the girls get colder._(:з」∠)_
Otherwise, sister paper will feel embarrassed and may not think about these things again in the future…
If you encounter a girl who is unhappy or angry with you, it’s important to coax and say something nice! ! What little baby, little sweetheart, say whatever you feel sick! ! ! [Because it may be useful.
If the girl is crying in front of you, if it is not because of you, but because of something, then wait until the girl is crying enough and then say something. Before that, you just have to prepare a tissue and stay by silently. Just hold it~ If you can hold your arms in your arms, it’s not bad to hold your arms in your arms to make her cry~
If the girl is crying because of you…Don’t be silent! ! ! Regardless of whose fault it is, treat it as your fault and apologize! ! ! ! Don’t leave the girl behind just because she was still arguing, and leave her alone! ! ! Never! ! !
7. I know a girl who is particularly insecure. The girl has always suspected that her boyfriend would look for someone outside. Ever since… the girl asked for the QQ password of her boyfriend, and then deleted all the female friends inside. NS! Rear! he! NS! actually! NS! Mutually! install! without! thing! land! pay! Past! arrive! now! exist! five! year! NS! what! Braised cooking means that I don’t understand…
So for women who want to delete friends when spraying oil…=L=Of course, we can’t do it… But if the majority of male friends encounter this matter, it shows two things, 1. Your female My friend really likes you, and likes to use such an extreme way to prove that you love her. 2. You can’t give your girlfriend a sense of security.
So _(:з」∠)_ encountered such a thing, you have to think deeply about how to give your sister a lot of security. But the sense of security is different from person to person… Lu Zhu QAQ Lu Zhu feels that she really loves her every day by calling and texting, and she is gentle and considerate. Taking care of her should give her a lot of security. 【I guess so
8. Suddenly think of a problem that every girl who has gone through puberty will have.
They will have people who are particularly fond of in the second dimension or the third dimension…especially like them…like to the average, they will call them like male gods.
o(≧v≦)o For example, I like Junjie Lin very much for Luzhu~ I like Junjie Lin for nine years. Every time I look at him on the TV and smile and watch him talk, Lu Zhu is like a idiot! ! ! Every time Lu Zhu sees Wo Nan God, Lin Junjie, she shouts in her heart that Wo wants to give you Sen child paper! ! ! ! Wo want to see you forever! ! ! A quilt with you! ! ! Then my boyfriend will look annoying.
There is a male god in every sister’s paper heart! ! ! He might be a big man who can’t catch it in three dimensions! It may also be a handsome guy in the second element! Boys have their own goddesses too! ! Whether she is 040 or Sora Aoi, there is still a goddess in her heart! ! [If you want to say that the male god or the goddess is your own EX, please die to death (﹁”﹁)
You will find one thing…Neither your goddess nor her male god will get it. The gods will always be gods_(:з」∠)_It is impossible to say that I like Lin Junjie for nine years. When I saw him in the tenth year, he saw the nest in the vast sea of people, and the nest lingered to the end of the world.
So, for this kind of person who can’t get it anyway _(:з」∠)_ boys, don’t be jealous and unhappy, even if the sister says, “Hal is so handsome and wants to be with him!” “Hal will only look at Sophie on the screen. The baby paper will still be born with you…
9. There should be questions about hobbies.
Lu Zhu thinks that ordinary girls like to watch TV dramas… American dramas, Japanese dramas, Hong Kong and Taiwan dramas, mainland dramas, Korean dramas. In short, there are always many TV dramas for girls to watch every year, or they like to go shopping and buy things, or they like to watch Constellation, talk about gossip, watch anime, etc. A few girls like to play games, most of them play Tencent games, and a few others play online games. Fewer girls would like to play pounding balls–
Generally, the things that boy paper likes and the things that sister paper likes are basically not the same, even the style of anime or TV series that you like to watch will not be the same_(:з」∠)_This is the boy paper and sister paper The difference lies.
so! When asked about conflicts between hobbies, please feel free to seek common ground while reserving differences_(:з」∠)_
The boys don’t really need to watch the TV series and movies that the sisters watch, as long as you know roughly what they are talking about, it’s good to be able to pick up the conversation when the sisters talk about it. Games or something. If you can take your sister paper to play a game with you, then you have to do well. This sister paper doesn’t know the equipment attributes at all. If you don’t know how to be a PVE and PVP, you have to be patient and teach you a good sense. As for watching football and basketball with you… Well, you can imagine the feeling of watching Korean dramas dragged by sister paper_(:з」∠)_
So don’t quarrel with sister paper because of such trivial matters, just be tolerant and understand. Take 10,000 steps back and let my sister paper!
For example, my boyfriend doesn’t like JJ Lin_(:з」∠)_Isn’t he going to accompany me to the concert of JJ Lin… [I take you as a positive example, are you happy_(:з」 ∠)_
10. The average sister paper is very boring, wrong, very shy.
_(:з」∠)_So, no matter how shy you are as a boy, you can’t reflect your shyness!
Men’s confession is of course the priority. You should also take the initiative to propose any future appointments. Remember the small anniversaries between you. The girl said you wanted something [especially the thing that I sent you a link] if She has been hesitant to buy it, so please buy it without hesitation! ! ! What kind of sweet words, Valentine’s Day, Qixi Festival, Christmas mess, and the holiday when you need to be obedient, let’s go boldly with nauseating text messages! ! ! ! Please don’t forget about sending text messages in the early morning of my sister’s birthday saying happy birthday and buying gifts.
Why? Because you are a boy! ! ! It’s normal for a boy to take the initiative! ! !
Do you think you can’t do it? You are also very shy? Stop making trouble, why don’t you say you are shy when you watch island country romance action movies! ! ! !
If you guys just come here! ! ! !
[Of course, Lu Zhu is a friendly reminder. Lu Zhu is talking about his girlfriend. If it is a sister paper who still has no hands, then you can restrain yourself a little_(:з」∠)_Who knows if it is used as a spare tire , Or even the spare tire is not just a jack…]
11. Sister paper is a kind of creature who is afraid of loneliness and boredom. You know from the fact that sister papers like to get together and play together.
So if you want to attack a sister paper, then please chat with him if there is nothing to do! ! But don’t talk about some very inexplicable things! ! ! ! Don’t even talk about H at the beginning! ! ! ! [But if sister paper talks about this aspect, then don’t say too much, just follow a little bit, don’t have too much initiative to speak, and give the initiative to speak to sister paper.
Then this is the time for a certain degree~