How to tell if older men like you

You meet a funny uncle, and you don’t know whether his behavior is ambiguous or friendly. Faced with boys of the same age, you can probably tell whether they are interesting to you, but when the age difference is widened, can you be so sure? The way the uncle picks up girls is a little different from that of young people. This article will teach you how to distinguish. Read this article to see if your uncle fits the description below to determine if he is attracted to you.

Method 1: He speaks freely in front of you

Does he often share his thoughts and feelings with you? As men get older, they pay more attention to trust and honesty when they are in love, and pay less attention to superficial qualities such as appearance. In order to build trust and close the distance with him, you have to actively listen to him when he speaks, and show strong interest. If you don’t mind, you can also boldly share your life experiences, feelings, opinions, etc.
Ask him open questions to deepen your understanding of him.
Say to him, “Can you say more?” to encourage him to continue talking.
If his words make you feel uncomfortable, you can boldly express your boundaries and tell him, “The conversation now makes me feel uncomfortable. Next time if you want to talk about this topic again, can you ask my opinion first?”
A long-term relationship is based on the sharing of values ​​and ideas, so you might as well share it boldly and listen carefully.

Method 2: He shows a genuine interest in your life

When he asks a deep question, you have to listen carefully. Older men, especially those who take their relationships seriously and want to have a long-term relationship with you, are interested in building deep emotional bonds. They really want to know you. When you answer, don’t have any worries and be loyal to yourself, so that you can show your own excellence. What serious questions might the man ask? Here are a few examples:
“What do you think is the most important thing in love?”
“How close are you to your family?”
“Do you have any dreams”?

Method 3: He will try his best to spend time with you

Does he ask you out frequently? Will he show up where you often go, just to “unexpectedly meet” with you? Young men may like to play in the world, some will suddenly evaporate from the world, or let you dove when dating, older men do not want to waste every minute and every second with you. If he frequently invites you out, he may be interested in you and regard you very importantly.
Research shows that as people get older, people will take the initiative to abandon those less important interpersonal relationships and spend time and energy only on the people who care about them most.
At the same time, good men (regardless of age) know how to respect you and not invade your space. If this man prohibits you from interacting with other people, or he follows you wherever you go, you must be careful.

Method 4: He always does his best to help you

When you talk to him about difficulties, does he always help you? No matter what little trouble you encounter at work, school, or life, as long as this man is interested in you, he will help you. This shows that he cares about you, and it also shows that this man is very reliable. Older men always want to prove that they can protect girls and shelter them from wind and rain, even if the other party is independent and strong enough. I suggest you ask yourself three questions:
“When I mentioned a recent trouble, how did he react?
“Did he help me knowing he is inconvenient?”
“Is he naturally willing to help others? Or is he just reaching out to me?”

Method 5: He shows off his achievements

Pay attention to whether he talks about his success. When he mentioned his educational background, career, and skills, he was actually showing off. Older men like to show that they are capable and able to meet your material needs, thus making you believe that they are the ideal partner. After all, they receive education earlier than you, work hard, and accumulate wealth. He might brag about the following aspects to you:
The luxurious vacation he had enjoyed.
The expensive luxury goods he bought.
Achievements or responsibilities at work.
Praise from others

Method 6: He sends a text message to greet you

Does he text you more frequently than once a day? This is not the occasional “How are you?” text messages. What you need to pay attention to is the “good morning” or “good evening” text messages asking you how you are and what you are thinking about. There are also signs that can reveal his mind, such as:
He always responds to your text messages in seconds, because he puts you first.
He sends serial text messages, trying to lure you into interacting.
He asks you questions in text messages, and his text messages are very long.
When you are too busy to reply, he respects your working hours. Even if you don’t reply, he won’t panic.

Method 7: He asks about your relationship status

Does he try to figure out your emotional state? He may follow you on social media or directly ask if you have a boyfriend. Either way, it sends a positive signal-he is interested in you and wants to make sure that you are single before proceeding. He may investigate your emotional state in the following ways:
He asks your friends or colleagues if you are single.
He casually mentioned that he was single: “I’m single now, so I haven’t been to many restaurants.”
He asked your friend of the opposite sex: “Are you boyfriend and girlfriend?”

Method 8: He praises you

Can you remember when he praised you? People usually hold a stereotype of older men, thinking that they like to express sincere compliments. However, whether this judgment is correct depends on the way the man flirts. The way the uncles praised the girl was funny, ironic, and heartfelt. Every time he praises you and makes you smile, you have to pay attention.

Method 9: He imitates your body language

When you two are together, pay attention to his actions. When a man is interested in a girl, he will change his posture and body language in order to be consistent with the woman. If you cross your arms, he will do the same. Next time you meet him, try to verify with the following methods:
When you sit at both ends of the table, your body is slightly tilted towards him. When you stand, look into his eyes.
Pay attention to whether his posture or position has changed.
If he likes you, he will straighten his back or take up more space with his body.

Method 10: Ambiguous physical contact

Did he try to gently touch your cheeks, shoulders, waist or arms. When men want to express ambiguity through physical contact, they most often choose the above-mentioned parts. These little gestures send a very positive signal-he is fascinated by you. The hug also shows that he is deeply attracted to you.
If the way he touches is uncomfortable or disgusting, you can say to him, “Please don’t do this.” or “Please ask for my consent before touching me.”

Method 11: He flirts with you

Will he look into your eyes and then turn to the side? Facts have proved that a short gaze is an ambiguous signal, and this assertion has nothing to do with age. When he looks at you intently, his heart is full of good feelings for you, but he feels a little shy. In fact, the four eyes can increase the attraction between the sexes.
You will find him at the other end of the room, or watching you in the crowd.
If he talks to you directly, he may look into your eyes with full attention.

Method 12: Your presence makes him smile

When you walk into the room, does his expression suddenly open up? Sometimes a brief smile may be a polite way of greeting, but you should pay attention to how often he smiles when he is by your side. If you two are always talking and laughing when getting along, it means that your relationship is no longer as simple as friends.