How to text older men

Texting a man you just met is always fun. If you are dating a man older than you, you will think about some special questions, such as how to impress him or how to show your mature charm. Fortunately, there are many ways you can use text messages to attract older men while maintaining your true colors.

Method 1: Be loyal to yourself first

You don’t need to change yourself in order to win the uncle’s favor. Tell him how you like to entertain, show your sense of humor through dialogue, and relax as much as possible. Talking to older men will make you tempted to hide your hobbies or change the way you communicate, but in the long run, it will not help your relationship. You should be loyal to yourself and let him like the real you.
If you plan to go to a bar with a friend, don’t be afraid to tell him, you won’t appear naive because of this. You can say to him, “I plan to go to a bar to dance with my friends tonight. Do you like dancing?” Honest and openness are the best strategies for male and female relationships.
If you feel that you have to change yourself to catch his heart, this person may not be for you. The people you like should make you more confident in yourself, not make you lose yourself.

Method 2: Send a text message to tell him your work and achievements

Be confident of your success. Older men may already have a certain career foundation, so your career success will also impress him. If your art work has recently been published in a magazine, or you have just been promoted, you can send a text message to tell him. Open your future goals to him, and boldly reveal your plan to achieve this goal.
When he asks you what you are working on recently, tell him frankly about your specific work. You can edit the text message like this: “I have been busy organizing events for the past few weeks, hiring catering companies and booking music performance guests.”

Method 3: Talk about current affairs

This is a good opportunity to show your intelligence and maturity. When there is a pause in the SMS chat, you can bring up a hot news that happened recently. Whether it’s current affairs politics or popular culture, you can express your opinions, but don’t forget to ask him what he thinks about these events. Although your views and even the way you get news are different due to age differences, everyone should maintain equal identities during the conversation.
Perhaps equal access to education is very important to you. If you are not sure how to bring up this topic, just use a recently read article or book as a reference.
Although he is older than you, he may not know more about current affairs than you. Don’t be scared by his age, and don’t let him look down on you. Regardless of the age difference between the two people in a relationship, your relationship must be based on mutual respect.

Method 4: Ask him questions

Older men have rich life experiences. If you are interested in his life, ask him questions. Maybe he traveled all over the world a few years ago, and finally met you after he settled down. Ask him where he likes the most in the places he has visited, and ask him what is the most interesting thing he has encountered during his travels. You can also send text messages to ask about his occupation and hobbies. Maybe you can learn new knowledge from his rich and colorful experience. At the same time, he should also lower his posture sincerely and learn from you.
Maybe he lived in Shanghai for a few years when he was in his 20s. You can ask him, “What is it like to live in Shanghai? Do you miss the days there?”
Maybe he has been painting in his spare time for 10 years. You can send a text message and ask him, “What medium do you like best to use for painting? Has your choice of medium changed in the past few years?”

Method 5: Send him a funny video

The “old man” also has a sense of humor. If you want to ease the awkward atmosphere, or play ambiguously, you might as well show him your comedy talent. Whether it’s a funny video that reminds you of him, or a GIF picture of a TV show that you like together, you can send it to him. Laughing together (even through texting) is the best way to build common ground with older men, and it’s also a great opportunity to show your humor and wit.
Maybe you are all big fans of the American TV series “Friends”. You can send him a screenshot of your favorite scene in the play, and attach the caption: “This scene always makes me laugh.”

Method 6: Make good use of emoji

Emoji can be used to flirt and show personality. When you make a joke or express an opinion in a sarcastic way, send a smiley face to let him know that you are just playing around. If you want to flirt with him, send a red heart or emoji with a red heart. Don’t use emoticons in every text message. Older men may not use emoticons often. The full screen of love and smiling faces may make him unbearable or upset.
Don’t worry even if your uncle never uses emoticons. People of different ages send text messages in different ways. Sometimes, older men don’t use emojis often, and some never use them.

Method 7: Make time for your interests and hobbies

Don’t give up everything for the uncle. Doing so will make you appear clingy. You should enjoy your own interests and hobbies in your free time, and then send text messages to tell him when you are interesting or new. You should hang out with friends when you are free, take a day trip to the suburbs, and enjoy your hobbies, such as climbing or playing a musical instrument. Older men are more likely to be attracted to girls with stronger personalities and independent.
When you fall in love, especially when the other person is a successful mature man, you can easily ignore your hobbies and responsibilities. You should also pay attention to yourself when you are in a relationship, so that you can always remember your success and excellence.

Method 8: Avoid texting him frequently

Older men may not like texting anytime, anywhere. People born in different generations have different attitudes towards texting. Older people may not like to spend hours holding their mobile phone chatting and joking. You can send text messages to him to learn about the current situation and make plans, but you must rely on face-to-face communication if you want to truly understand each other. Don’t worry because he didn’t reply to your text messages in time. Texting should be moderate (1 per day or several per week). The time between two people is the most important. Text messages can only be used as an aid.
If you don’t get a reply within two or three hours, try not to send text messages in bursts. He may be busy with work, or he may be dealing with other things.

Method 9: Protect yourself when sending text messages

The interaction between men and women must be equal. Unfortunately, some uncles have ulterior motives in favor of young girls. If the other party and you always show contempt when texting, or if you force you to send explicit content, you must be vigilant. Don’t disclose too much personal information to him when you are just in contact. If you still can’t fully trust him, or don’t know him well, avoid sending sex-related messages or sharing private photos of yourself.
Trust your instincts and wait until you are completely at ease with him before sharing more personal information with him.
If the other person seems to have obvious restraint, manipulative, or arrogant or rude to you, stay away from him immediately. You should be treated equally.

Tips

When texting with him, try to get directly into the subject, such as telling him, “A very crazy thing happened today.”